You have a piano or keyboard and your child/grandchild keeps asking to play. You do your research, and some suggest beginning as young as 4, while others say to wait until 1st grade or later. Then you see 3 year olds playing Mozart on YouTube and wonder if it’s too late…So now you really aren’t sure! Here is why this question can be so confusing: because the simple answer is - it depends. Read on for 4 questions to ask before you start lessons.
The child: are they ready?
Every child IS different. Some 4 year olds will be ready to sit at the bench (mostly) and learn. Some 6 year olds may not be. What about practice? In order to enjoy lessons, consistent practice is essential. Reading skills are not required, but it helps for a child to know the alphabet (A-G), and be able to count up to 10. Be sure to request an intro lesson to determine readiness. A qualified teacher can assist you in deciding if your child is ready, or if they should wait a little longer before they begin.
The parent: are you ready?
Piano lessons are a commitment, and the younger the child, the greater the parent involvement needs to be. Young children will need a parent to be actively involved during each practice session. Older children may just need a parent to be nearby. Also, consistency is important. It’s generally best for lessons to be held at least once/week, at a time that isn’t too close to bedtime.
The teacher: what is their experience with your child’s age?
Not every teacher has the training or experience with every age. Some teachers specialize in 4 year olds; others prefer to start a child at age 7 or 8 years old. Be sure to ask the teacher about their background with a particular age group - it can make a huge difference in how much your child enjoys their lessons.
Timing: what is happening in your child’s life?
Any change in routine can have an impact on a child, but for very young children, in these circumstances it is generally best to wait: right after a new sibling, a move, or the very beginning of a school year. Let them settle so they can be in a better place to learn. On the other hand, a group class introducing students to the piano may be an ideal solution. You know your child best!
Again, every child, parent, teacher, and life circumstance is different. Hopefully, this article can help you to start piano at a time that is best for both your child and for you. Enjoy the journey! 🎶